Teddybear in grief

Hari ni aku chatting dgn someone yg aku sayang dan care all this while. He told me that he just got married, without the family knows about it because his family cannot accept the girl. After dah nikah, baru dia bgtau his family and they were shocked, angry, upset.. semua reaction yang tak meng'happy'kan lah kiranya.. He said that the parent cakap tak akan ampunkan dia, dah buang dia and all those 'drama melayu' stuff. Aku quite shocked coz its been like more than a month he got married and he just told me today. But he said that he kind of serba salah to tell me because of all the drama.

Put aside the facts that we used to be so closed and aku suppose marah him coz he did something without thinking about his family, i became so calm with the news. Aku cuba rational kan fikiran aku and i'm sure he must have his own reason kenapa dia buat tindakan mcm tu. Dia yang aku kenal selalu berfikir panjang in doing something, furthermore when it comes to his family. People always have reason when doing something that other people see as selfish...

He told me that he'll meet me later and will tell me the whole story. So, i'll wait for that moment. I just told him that in life we sometimes have to make choices, and he already made his choice so he need to be strong enough to face the situation. He cannot win back the family's heart in a blink of eyes, but he need to be patient and keep on trying to win back their hearts.

And i nearly drop a tear when i say Selamat Pengantin Baru, and he reply with the crying emoticon and said 'uwaaaaa.. sedihh'.. hmm.. jgn sedih, u know i always sedih when u sedih.. dari dulu2 lagi kan.. I know he loves his family so much, and his family love him like to infinity.. so things must be really hard now.

Bro, just remember what i always told u.. i always be here for u.. no matter what.. and i know you'll be happy and everything will be back to ok..